notes:

Please stop taking everything so personally. If you give out really good advice and that person doesn't choose to follow it, then that's on them. Not you. Stop feeling pathetic just because someone else made their own decision for themselves. Sure, you can pity them if they chose a bad route, but don't take it upon yourself to become upset. When you reach out to others you do it by your own accord. You don't do it in order to receive merit of their appreciation. Appreciation is always nice, but should never be expected.